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Image of cupid and heartNot everyone using online dating sites is looking for love. Scammers create fake online profiles using photos of other people — even stolen pictures of real military personnel. They profess their love quickly. And they tug at your heartstrings with made-up stories about how they need money — for emergencies, hospital bills, or travel. Why all of the tricks? They’re looking to steal your money.

As if all that isn’t bad enough, romance scammers are now involving their victims in online bank fraud. Here’s how it works: The scammers set up dating profiles to meet potential victims. After they form a “relationship,” they come up with reasons to ask their love interest to set up a new bank account. The scammers transfer stolen money into the new account, and then tell their victims to wire the money out of the country. Victims think they’re just helping out their soulmate, never realizing they’re aiding and abetting a crime.  

Here are some warning signs that an online love interest might be a fake. They ask you to:

  • chat off of the dating site immediately, using personal email, text, or phone
  • wire money using Western Union or Money Gram
  • set up a new bank account

Did you know you can do an image search of your love interest’s photo in your favorite search engine? If you do an image search and the person’s photo appears under several different names, you’re probably dealing with a scammer. And if the person’s online profile disappears a few days after they meet you, that’s another tip-off.

Here’s the real deal: Don’t send money to someone you met online — for any reason. If your online sweetheart asks for money, you can expect it’s a scam.

Unfortunately, online dating scams are all too common. There may be tens of thousands of victims, and only a small fraction report it to the FTC. If this happens to you, please report it at ReportFraud.ftc.gov.

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Sterling Rose …
August 29, 2020

In reply to by Deb k

Please Contact me on this. I have been talking to him for a year now
hawks 1
February 13, 2020
Talking to this girl Anita from Ukraine been talking over a month she says she is a dental assistant and she goes to the international federation of medical associations they send students to other countries she was one out of 6 who won a grant so she picked USA to come live with me every thing was paid for they set the flight up her passport which she sent me her passport and her flight ticket but a few days ago she said because she won’t be returning back to Ukraine that she would haft to pay the 1500 dollars because the federation wasn’t going to waste there money if she in not planning to return she has sent me a document from the medical association her bank account which she withdrew 900 dollars and wanted me to send 600 dollars to make up the 1500 dollars so she can give to her curators so they can finish all necessary documents her visa to fly her to the states
Sis67
September 01, 2020

In reply to by hawks 1

I have a brother who has just been recently widowed earlier this year. He was very lonely and began dating a woman named Anita, who says she’s 35 from Budapest. He is 60, has a home and is modestly established in AZ. They met on a JW dating site which he was embarrassed to reveal. Supposedly, she has had one of her local elders from a congregation there call my brother and speak highly of her, but showed disappointment in how they met. He has only spoken to her once. She is beautiful and even has a couple of photos wearing a badge for a JW convention. My brother is not bad looking, but he’s no Omar Sharif. She does not work due to COVID-19 and because she says she was sexually harassed and lost her former job. Her phone is “broken” and it’s irreparable, she can only communicate through Hangout and emails. She can’t take more photos because she doesn’t have a camera. She is pictured with full lips, long blond hair, clear light complexion of a Romanian woman, and hazel eyes. He has been communicating with her since May 2020, and already the use endearments and confess love for each other. She drew up a contract promising him her hand in marriage...he may already be sending her money each month. Recently, I found out from another family member that she said her friend from the USA is in Budapest and would like to purchase a condo, but needs to have money sent to his account and then will need him to exchange it from various ATM in AZ to Bitcoins. It all sounds underhanded and illegal. I’m worried sick. Is this possibly the same person? She speaks with a heavy accent and her emails have obvious errors, as if she can’t communicate in English clearly.
cjbaustin
February 14, 2020
I have been talking to a man that I met on a dating site. We were talking for a few weeks. He had a trip to Germany planned but would fly to see me at the end of his trip. He was not on his flight. Two weeks later I was connected by a hospital telling the man was attacked and robbed and was in critical condition and I needed to send money for surgery. I did . Then I needed to pay his hospital bill. I did. He was released from the hospital and went to stay in a hotel and was going to fly again but there was a crime in the hotel and he was a suspect. He was cleared. He has been asking me to pay his hotel bill for the last year and half so he can leave and get back to the states. He has no access to his funds in the states. Do people like this have access to assistance? Do they stay stranded? Or is it a scam?
Esmerelda(not …
February 14, 2020
I have almost allowed myself to send money...…….met a few people on line...……….with a pattern of statements......at least 3 of them: all have lost their wives via motor vehicle accident...3 years ago......left with a teen son...…...all have decided to go to some current military station(Afghanistan-doc; Syria-doc ; Yemen- major under the UN auspices)……for professionals, have poor spelling and grammar......one person ,I debated for a month with him about not sending money to get his child out of the hospital...….eventually he said his son was put in jail at 13 because the bill wasn['t paid...……..also commonly, they are unable to access their money but can send a video of them running in the country, one looked like it was in Florida) and yes tthey "love bomb" you.....I believe someone has made up scripts for them and use a technique that make you addicted to them...…...I read a relationship coach who taught women how to say or write things that makes a man ADDICTED TO YOU...…..same seems to happen with these guys..and when you google them, they don't appear...…..I've been googled and yes am in the internet, lots of times with my address as well!!!!!!! also 2 of them said they needed money because their child has an illness and need money for treatment
Brad
February 18, 2020
Has anyone been scammed here by a Russian woman Tatiana(Tatyana)Zuberava we have been chatting online for a year and I was stupid enough to send her a small amount of money after she asked now she just keeps asking for more there's always something wrong or needed I know it's a scam now did some research on her, her email is young andsmarty@ just hope she hasn't done it to anyone in the US yet
Lien nguyen
February 14, 2020
I have scam from person he talked with me in 2 weeks after that he said he go Syria and then he said he has parcel and money he want send to me but he not ask address he send to me in Australia I don’t believe because he not ask address fist and then diplomats company send me email ask 9000 I paid after paid they ask more 32000 for delivery because in parcel have much money the man Steven Dinh the man talk with me on Facebook every day he want to kill me if I die my childrens will suffer he very mean he said he is soldier he not scare the police because I have fill in my address for diplomats company so he know the address I’m very stress every day he want me pay 10000 for company I very scare because he know my address but the bank keep that money not allowed to withdraw the company diplomats tell me come the bank confirm but the bank want owner account come so I call him stevedinh but he not answer I talked with him nearly too months I’m stupid not call for him fist he scammer so he never answer so I think he is scammer and the company diplomats they don’t have phone they said they delivery 32 000 because they buy a security van scare government know the money in side the man stevedinh make friend on my Facebook and then he want me open hangout I very scare him I thinking afew days I delete all message and hangout the people be careful they talk very sweet and romantic fist and then ask money why they no work they just want scam we work very hard that my story I’m scare him no good person on online be careful we lose money
HopeFran
February 15, 2020
I have been reading all these scams, and I thought I was the only stupid, foolish, lonely woman to fall for a romance scammer guy. He says he worked for the UN, as a private dr, and he wanted to come home to GA. that his son was in a school, and wife got killed in car wreck, years ago, He is very good looking, and 56 years old, Morphy George, anyone heard of him..if so PLEASE LET ME KNOW...and I fell for his hook line and sinker, till I am so broke and ruined my credit rating, I went from 872 FICO score to 498, WE have been chatting for over a year, he persuaded me to send him money to get out of the camp he was in, to come home to meet me, he was getting fake UN I guess sending me letters to sign to get him out, I told him the UN says they furnished you everything you need, even to your bank accounts, he said he was under the UN as a private dr, he didn't get all those privileges, so dumb me, I sent the UN, so to say, money orders from banks, in the amount of $5,000 just the beginning, he was coming to the states, then three days later no word, he said was in a wreck going to airport and needed $10,000 to get medical needs met, could not send that, then the dr from that so called hospital sent an e-mail will work with him and give him some pain meds if I send them $2500, so I had to borrow that, got out of there got stuck in airport needed a ticket to come home, another $2500, lets just said after that he was coming home, said he had a lot of gold and the UK officials kept him, took him off plane, and locked him up, now needs money for a lawyer , his lawyer from the states, got put in jail so to say, for 7 months, finally got out of there got him a ticket to come to states, now this ought to knock some since into my head, but now got him a ticket for #2200, now he says was on plane getting ready to take off a passenger got sick, so they have grounded a plane, till he gets out the hospital, he said the UK airport is paying for everyone's meals putting them up till this many lives or dies, this has been going on for a month now...living off the airport...so now he told me he was entitled to $500,000 from UN, and he would have it sent to me if I would pay for it to be delivered..so at the present, he has bleed me dry, he is living in an airport in the UK, wants now another ticket to come in now, not wait for the plane that is grounded so to say, coz of this sick man...how can an airplane ground a plane and pay for all the passengers meals and rooms, I tell him that all the time, and paid out my ging ging to get that $500,000 delivered, and now nothing, I believe he got all that money, and not living in an airport, Asked him the other day what about your son, said he hasn't spoke to him in a while, coz he doesn't want him to know he has been in jail...I am learning, now ...and got to get him turned in somehow..I know I can't get my money back, but I can get even with him...anybody got some good suggestions....
Joy
February 16, 2020
Us there anyone out there have a similar story. A man contacted me on Facebook. His called himself Rafael. He was extremely good looking. He then asked to communicate in WhatsApp. After some doubts, I agreed. He was very personable and charming. He stayed he was a widow with a teenage son in England living with Rafael's mother. I fell for him quickly, which is unusual for me. Of course, he was very romantic and spoke of our love and our future. He purported to be a buyer and seller of crude oil. He began by asking for gift cards. Then he asked for me to wire money to help kickstart a business deal. Then when he was at sea, his ship was sabotaged by pirates. He said he had money and business documents that needed to be kept safe. He needed me to help him because he had no family in the States. I agreed. I have reason to regret this decision. Since I agreed , I have been threatened with notices forcing me to pay various taxes and money to purchase certificates to prove that I am not participating in money laundering and/or terrorist activities. It took me way too long to see that the initial money may never have existed and that I was scammed for approximately 30 thousand dollars. I have reported this. I hope to find out more soon.
Sassy girl
February 16, 2020
Anybody here chatting with Justin Noah Kingston? Young, good looking guy, 35 yrs old from Tennessee. Director of a small scale gold firm in the US. Divorced and wife cheated with his best friend Kyle. He was stuck in Nigeria claiming he lost his wallet and now asking for help to get him out there.
LadyS
February 17, 2020
Has anyone heard of Tobias Maximilian? I have been chatting online with him. Now says he is in love with me! That's without meeting up or any kind of meaningful con sedation on the phone. I am just waiting for the money requests to start!
Tom
February 17, 2020
I nearly got scammed on hangout, was it good idea to delete my account, she was trying to get money of me and threating to post stuff to my family and friends. Trying to use western union
Sadly Not Real
February 17, 2020
Has anyone run across someone named David Florain who is claiming to be working at the UN in Damascus, Syria as an instructor for machinery and heavy machinery?
Immortal Beloved
February 17, 2020
Looks like I have been caught for a third time. A guy calling himself James Johnson matched with me on Tinder. Quickly moved to WhatsApp. Usual story..no parents, widowed, no children, working on a three week contract in Malaysia before coming over to UK. Has not asked how much I earn, or for any form of money as yet (in three weeks). Is supposed to be in UK next week (25th) but just got in touch to say they are evacuating the platform as there is a fire on board. He may not be in touch again, but loves me like no other etc. etc. I am now in a position of knowing this would happen just as we were about to meet, but at the same time hoping it’s not true. No more Tinder for me after this. I hate how they make you feel, but as others have said, I live in hope that there is someone genuine out there.
frank126
February 17, 2020
It’s happening with men too. Recently I had an Alvarado Smith try to get me to send Amazon cards after talking for 3 days! And I think I have another one actively trying. Her supposed name is Emily Lewis from San Antonio Texas. I think the Alvarado character said that by talking on Instagram she was endangering the mission because of cellular use, but then recommended Hangouts. I knew it was a scam early on from the poor English the person used. This new person is a little more involved. I’m wondering if I got moved up the ladder by scammers so they can try even more elaborate setups. We’ll see. I do like exposing them and then putting them in their place. Quite intriguing. Lol.
Love interest
February 17, 2020
Met a man, Charles Ferguson, on facebook. Immediately fell in love. Requested 700.00 to pay taxes in Philippines.going to visit needed 1,500 to get visa. Wanted me to open bank account so he could send money. Uses religion. Say your prayers, honey.
Nealtammy06
February 18, 2020
I've been talking to a guy named Nathan John Scott acabou but Afghanistan he says he loves me and he wants to come home he asks me to send him money that it cost $500 for his leave what should I do we've been talking for like 3 years now is he true or is he fake I need to know if you can help me out
Zorro
February 18, 2020
I was approached last year by a supposed military sgt by the name of Donald William's, thru a dating app, asked for me to get on hangouts, and I did, we talked for months, I send him pics of me, none nude, he sent me his, he gave his his phone number, I sent him a text, he told me it was an area code from California, wanted me to send him $100, I told him that i couldn't, I did however made a mistake of send him numbers off the iTunes cards, then haven't heard from him since, scammers, that u, since reading these articles it has put a great strength on me, another thing if u can't hear their voice or it sounds different I get suspicious easily, and its either middle eastern or Aftican.
Lucky
February 18, 2020
I was contacted by a man Roy who found profile on Instagram.. he is a ‘ geologists’ Living in uk but originally from AUS saying his son and mother lives here . Been talking for a month, he has asked me for $400 as his ‘ credit card expired ‘ and then asked for ‘$200’ this week. How can you track down person behind it
Don't use your…
February 18, 2020
Did bank account ask for money had one diaster after another saying stuck in foreign country
Queen
February 18, 2020
My husband was scammed by a women called Sandra Dyal from Bronx for $50,000 and now we have a debt off 120k. All this happened when I was away for a year and he was depressed.
Sunshine
February 18, 2020
A man from dating site, Navy Seal Daniel Andrew, He’s in Quatar going to Iraq! a smart guy, after calling texting.. asking for 50,000 or 20,000 for penalty to retire desperately just to meet me.. then I said no way u can give you that huge amount of money.. and later on he’s asking me To get his Package fee for 5,000 so, he can get his CODE to retire!! Package includes stones, gold bar and lots of cash! I was shocked! Oh I just need my authorization Code!! so, he can retire and spend The rest of his life w/me!! He’s a smart sweet talker w/a strong accent!! But honestly I fall for This guy!! Almost almost got me but then I realized.. is this real?? Have a Huge house in Buffalo, vacation house in florida..lots of investment!! sounds real!! But Iam not totally convinced..and you can’t have 5,000 to get your package!! How can we check if he’s real? His name or Photo?
Goldie
February 20, 2020

In reply to by Sunshine

This guy is a scammer. Don’t waste any more of your time with him. And no personal information. Just block and report him to whatever site you met him on. In the future, if they say they are engineers, working on an oil platform, American soldiers, or doctors working over seas, single with a kid, (usually in boarding school) and something terrible happened to the mother. It’s a scam. It’s usually the same pattern.
ugh
May 19, 2020

In reply to by Sunshine

I have practically the same exact story. A marine Lieutenant Michael Gibbs grew up in england moved to US when parents died, only child. British accent for the most part although it sometimes sounded off. In Qatar for 3 weeks (when asked why it's taking longer he says "the big man" is our president must have other things on his mind. He's now wanting to retire bc he has realized what's important in life, etc. very loving messages, called me "queen" "love" "empress" "babe", LOTS of love songs, talk about living together, getting married. At about the 2 month mark, he has this story about needing to retrieve some safe deposit boxes from Turkey bc the government is getting "creative" with foreign account holders. but he since he is active duty can't do it himself as it's against the rules. All he needs from me is to email the security liaison and be the contact person in the states for her to send contents (gem stones, bonds, cash, personal items of his parents) to. That's when i realized this is a scam. some warning flags before but this confirmed it.
Yep
July 25, 2021

In reply to by ugh

Same lame story. I turned him into NCIS. He’s also spoofing the name Thomas Gibson.
Cassandra
February 18, 2020
The name he is currently going by is Harrison Roy. He claims to be of Turkish descent with a black father from Austin, TX. He claims a 6 year old daughter named Cindy. He says he's a civil engineer working with the UN government in Syria. Watch out for him. He's cunning and very good at sweet talk. He ask for money for his daughter's school, then his daughter has stomach cancer and he needs help paying for her surgery. Then his boss extends his contract and he needs $3500.00 to buy out if it. Then the plane leaves him and his daughter in Indonesia and he needs more money to get a plane ticket from there back to Austin. He's very cunning and he's a sweet talker. Ladies beware!
noscamme
February 18, 2020
anyone dating a Richards Bage?
emmanuel
February 22, 2020

In reply to by noscamme

I got message from this person on mi chat just yesterday, she was sounding romantic, she told me she is a single mother that she lost her husband in terrible car accident, she asked me to chat with her on ichat and I told her I can't cause I don't use iPhone so she said she was going to send me an iPhone and laptop trough cargo British airways, later this evening she told me that she has sent it including 900 pounds, she even sent me some photos with the waybill code and she gave me this contact to call +2348121644499 ad British airways customer service line, that it will arrive in 6 to 8 hours from Birmingham city uk, I just needed to confirm if it's a scam number, u no say I no be maga instead they go fall
Anthony
February 18, 2020
So i was approched on Twitter by woman named Vannesa william or William Vannesa, jumping into me and started chatting and showed intrest in me, asked stuff, and shared some pics, and later told me that she or he needs my help go get än amazon gift card? To buy new phone? Anybody been approched by this person?
Amazed55-
March 01, 2020

In reply to by Anthony

I have, by a man online. He said his data wasn’t working because he was in Austria.
Sundkai
October 14, 2020

In reply to by Anthony

I meet a girl with the same name. She wants me to go to Hangouts. Then she told me she lost her work and Apartment and she needs an amazon gift card to buy food. You got a picture from her?
Andrea walker
February 18, 2020
Please how can i do photo check to confirm a man i have talking with online for some years now
Tennurse
February 19, 2020
Anyone heard the name Davies Jefferson? He's a structural engineer in NY. Any help would be appreciated
Scammer be gone
April 09, 2020

In reply to by Tennurse

No but I have a live one I'm talking too right now. He called himself Davis Lee.He's some kind of engineer currently in Cyprus landing a contract. No parents, lived with his uncle from early age. Professes love early on.Claims to be a native English speaker but doesn't get common used phrases. I keep him going so I can sink him totally! :) This is so funny!
Mary-Kate
February 19, 2020
I don’t know if I’m being scammed or not, I’ve fallen hook line and sinker for a guy named Jack Harris. He says he’s 60 years old and has sent me a photograph of himself and we talk on the telephone and by messenger. We met online last Fall, and he told me this about himself. He was born in New Zealand and orphaned as a young child and spent time with foster parents until he was adopted by an American couple when he was 15. He joined the US Army at 18 and served in many warzones. He then trained as a surgeon with the Army and ended up saving many lives throughout his military career as a battlefield surgeon. He left the military in the late nineties and got married. He served as secret security for President George W Bush and President Clinton. His wife died of cancer six years ago leaving him with two children who are now fourteen and fifteen. He then decided to become a surgeon attached to the Peace Keeping Forces and is based in a jungle in Somalia just outside Mogadishu and his children are currently at boarding school at home in the USA. He has a lot of money but wants to keep working saving lives. The base is constant under attack from terrorists and he saves lives on a daily basis and is so needed that he cannot he spared for vacation. He tells me that I am his queen, his true love, his soul mate and we are meant to be together and as soon as he is allowed to leave Somalia, we shall buy a home together, be married and be together forever. I’m starting to wonder if it’s all too good to be true. But I’m lonely since my husband left me. I have money but nothing to spend it on and I so want a life with Jack.
Stormy66
February 20, 2020
I think I'm being scammed he is on a dating site it's called POF I guess his name is Hanson lewis or hansom776 why do people do this to good people he is in the army wanted me to give money so he can send me his stuff thru the army with a Dr Gerald Williams I turned them in thank God I'm broke
germangirl
February 20, 2020
I come from Germany Last summer, a man wrote to me on my blogger account from Instagram. After about 2 weeks we wrote on Hangout and later also on Whats App. He had a US number. I liked him, everything he wrote was credible. He is a single father of twins and lives in Tampa. He calls himself Gilbert James. Everything was great, I began to trust him and also to develop feelings. We wrote every day. Due to the time difference also at night. In August he flew to the UK for three months on business. He is employed there on an oil rig as a freelance design engineer. Before Christmas, he was going home. No problem so far. When a fire broke out on the drilling platform he wanted money for food because the kitchen was destroyed. From that point on, I was critical. First he wanted Bitcoins to pay the dealer for the food, I told him I wasn't doing that. Then he tried to make me feel guilty. I told him that I can send him food by mail but that I will not give him any money. He said that he can't receive packages on the rig. Then he asked for Steam and iTunes cards. I told him again that he gets nothing from me. We were arguing and I haven't heard anything in a long time. In December he had called me twice, but had not accepted the call. At the end of December he wrote me that he can't forget me and he loves me. Now and then we wrote. When I was on vacation in Florida in January I told him that I was in Tampa and that I wanted to meet him. He then said that he was still in the UK. I knew then that he wasn't who he said he was. I blocked and deleted it on Instagram and via WhatsApp. It's funny, even though I know that he is a cheat I long for the conversations that have taken place as they have been very good for me
Tennurse
February 20, 2020
Has anyone encountered the name Davies Jefferson?
Don’t be foole…
February 20, 2020
Ladies be aware Pedro Johnson is a scammer. Don’t think with your heart. Don’t fall for his sweet and loving words. The guy claims to be born in Germany and came to the US. when he was 12. Doesn’t remember how to speak German and sounds middle eastern! Has a US Passport staying country of birth USA. He’s just a pretty face that anyone would want to call their own! Be smarter!!! Do t send any money!
foolish
February 21, 2020
Dose anyone know Raymond Martinez he said he works for oil rig. dont believe him. His scammer.
Eagle eye
February 22, 2020
My friend met a guy online who uses the name Steve Berg. All love and romance, two months of texting, phone calls...he claims to be a civil engineer from Sweden who is working in NYC, then called away fo Cyprus.( Cue the suspicion). texting daily and talking about meeting her...flying her to NYC to meet. Calls her “from Cyprus” asking her to check his Swiss Bank account for him because he is having trouble with his internet connection where he is staying. She logs in using the info he gives her (I wish she hadn’t) and the balance shows $7 million. Ok so who does that? My guess is it’s some kind of attempt to install malware on her computer and get Her personal info and passwords. I searched all the info she had on him and came up dry. Then I reverse searched is photo and found a bunch of hits on some gay Tumbler pages. The exact shirtless photo he had sent her! Beware. Has anyone else met this guy?
missmarple123
February 23, 2020
Hello my good friend (not me pretending to be a “friend”) has been messaging a guy who has said he is the army fighting in Iran, he’s from USA, has two children, widowed and coming out of the army soon.. I’m worried as I think it may be a scam and he’s just a bloke pretending to be this man using his pictures, he goes by the name of Hilton Patrick.. upon investigation, this “man” has 5 different Facebook sites, Instagram accounts and twitter.. I’m worried as I don’t want her to get hurt.. I just hope he doesn’t start asking for money. Has anyone else come across this name?
Jcemp
February 23, 2020
I was wondering if anyone has heard of a travis marsh he says he is from amillo Texas and is in the army, his wife died from breast cancer and has a daughter who is around 15. Says she lives in Texas with his mother. But he doesn't have a Texas phone number, he says he is in the special forces
adoption
October 21, 2020

In reply to by Jcemp

I was also contacted by Travis Marsh but he said he lives in Allen Texas
maria
February 24, 2020
I was in ourtime dateing , (sweden)there is a man , HERBERT 29. , first he was very respektfully careing ,,and talked abaut love ,,,after a time he got problem with his bank. And needed more and more money , He told he was rich and only wanted to borrow money ,,he say his name is Herbert de Byurne ,..but he is a cat fisher ,,just want money , scammer ,
Lady83
February 25, 2020
Has anybody heard of cammy Montreal?
ohgreat
February 25, 2020
Im speaking to a person clamming to be named daniella white and seems to be stationed in Africa . Has sent me multiple pictures and Even a video of working out. But all in military attire. She asked me to buy her a card to continue chatting. Sad story about parents dying and joined military. But English is not good. And when I ask for real proof they attack me.
Scamalert
February 25, 2020
David William is a scammer ! Wants to tell me how much he loves me and quotes Ronald Reagan ( he misspelled it- so that was a clue). Then he asks me to go on WhatsApp , I’m too old for this but he keeps asking . Later he asks for over $35,000 to move Barrels of Oil to the US and later we will share a home and the money we make on the sale of this Oil. It’s a scam ladies! Don’t fall for his sweet talking!