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Image of cupid and heartNot everyone using online dating sites is looking for love. Scammers create fake online profiles using photos of other people — even stolen pictures of real military personnel. They profess their love quickly. And they tug at your heartstrings with made-up stories about how they need money — for emergencies, hospital bills, or travel. Why all of the tricks? They’re looking to steal your money.

As if all that isn’t bad enough, romance scammers are now involving their victims in online bank fraud. Here’s how it works: The scammers set up dating profiles to meet potential victims. After they form a “relationship,” they come up with reasons to ask their love interest to set up a new bank account. The scammers transfer stolen money into the new account, and then tell their victims to wire the money out of the country. Victims think they’re just helping out their soulmate, never realizing they’re aiding and abetting a crime.  

Here are some warning signs that an online love interest might be a fake. They ask you to:

  • chat off of the dating site immediately, using personal email, text, or phone
  • wire money using Western Union or Money Gram
  • set up a new bank account

Did you know you can do an image search of your love interest’s photo in your favorite search engine? If you do an image search and the person’s photo appears under several different names, you’re probably dealing with a scammer. And if the person’s online profile disappears a few days after they meet you, that’s another tip-off.

Here’s the real deal: Don’t send money to someone you met online — for any reason. If your online sweetheart asks for money, you can expect it’s a scam.

Unfortunately, online dating scams are all too common. There may be tens of thousands of victims, and only a small fraction report it to the FTC. If this happens to you, please report it at ReportFraud.ftc.gov.

A woman looking at a dating site on her computer.

Anonymous
December 04, 2018
I had a guy named George Marshall request to follow me on Instagram. Said that he was from Australia and in the army in the US on a peace keeping mission. He went on to say he was new to Instagram and that his wife was killed in car accident. He’s a single dad. He asked me if I had a google hangout and I said no. After that no more messages and his account disappeared the next day.
Cherie
December 04, 2018
Scammer...Adams Moreno, he's says... these guys are deplorable
RyezzaR
December 14, 2018
Same thing happened to me, he messaged me on FB, request for friend. He claimed he was a Building Agent, in LA California, but from Sabah, Malaysia. Then he sent a pic of himself, with a video of himself working out at the gym. Based on the photo, he is good looking & handsome man. He seems so sincere and loving, with the photos of him, with financial stability. He laid the some sad story about his ex cheating on him. After a months chatting, he told me his dad was died, and need to pay Stamp duty tax, Processing remmitance certificate, Sworn affidavit, Court approval & next of kin affidavit, for claiming of inheritance about RM35K. I got all the undying love crap. Im lost but thanks that I have God with me. I feel like such an idiot. But I am eternally grateful that I'm aware about the scammers. I wish there was some way we could warn others about these schmucks. Thanks again for sharing all the story. When he sent the first message on whataspp I saw he used an NY phone no, not LA. Please beware gurls with this phone no & FB ID. Phone no ;+1 (929) 267-7634‬ Facebook User ID ; @ Umar Adrian
Charley
December 05, 2018
Met this man Richard Smith lives in Houston wants me to buy goggle play cards..professing his love for me right away he is on an oil rig daughter in boarding school wife died for a any one know him
IFEELdumb
December 05, 2018
Anyone heard of an Army Soldier who has dual citizenship in German and American. He is based out of Brussels. I have met him on Coffee meets Bagels. I have talked to him almost every day for 1.5 months on the phone. I can't tell from is accent exactly where he is from. He told me that their devices were going to be taken away because of a security breach and he needed me to send him a phone, so we could continue to talk. I needed to send it to Beaumont, Texas for shipment to Brussels. I did like an idiot. He is taking a leave and needs to money to get home (airfare) and he will refund it to me later after the army reimburses for his travel. I told him I don't have access to those kinds’ funds (4,300). Now he wants me to open a checking account because he is selling some property in Germany and so he can get the cash to buy the ticket to return. I feel dumb even typing this. Please tell me someone has the same story.
Bk
December 05, 2018
Has anyone ever talked to this man. William. Paul. Dieter
clrett
December 05, 2018
Why would they want you to receive a package for them?
CeeCee
December 06, 2018
Has anyone encounter a Hillary Tommy on FB. He is a single/widow from the UK. He has a son and his wife passed away 3 yrs ago along with his parents. He claims that he lost his card and has no means to sent money to his son in the state. He had a job offer in the UK engraving glass pictures and had a personal business buying and selling antiques. He couldn't wait to get back to the State, so we could start a new life with our family and live with him in his house which was to big for him and his son Jeff. He was sweet, loving and caring. He text me every morning and night and always told me he missed and loved me so much. He called me Honey, Hun, Babe, My Queen and his wife. Then after a month of text/messaging and short talks and voice message. Then it's started he wanted me to open an account and wanted me.to buy the stem cards, iTunes, Goggle or E Bay cards. Which unfortunately I did buy a couple but it didn't feel right. After a while he still kept persistent and wanted me to buy more because he needed for his antiques and to get back to the States. He has a home in NY and Chicago. He is about 45yr. old. When I asked if he was scamming he had a excuse. Why would that do that Babe. I love you and miss you so much , you are my wife. I continued to ask questions and told him some one was trying to get into my account he said that was not me. With in seconds he blocked me from messenger and Facebook, disconnected his phone and delete his email. Before he blocked me from messenger. He sent a final message. Apologizing and saying he wish he could take it all back that I meant the world to him and that I will always forever be in his heart and to always take care. I fell for someone who wasnt real. I fell in love with the person in the pictures and the way he talked. A good lesson to be learned. Don't trust anyone.
Ima Sucker
December 06, 2018
Anybody know Scotty Wings? Captain RayFrederick Schumacher? David Newman? Or Lieberman Douglass
Staceygeo
January 29, 2019

In reply to by Ima Sucker

I know a guy that sounds the same as this guy. Currently going be Scott McGregor from California.ortho surgeon went overseas now
Sassy...
December 06, 2018
Anyone heard from a man named Nick from Australia? Says he owns a small courier company in Perth. His emails are from Clutter Pandy?He ask for photos of me constantly. Has not asked for money, but why all the photos? I have sent 3 head shots, now he wants full length photos Anyone heard from him?
Joy
December 06, 2018
Im talking a guy who is working in the oil rig in turkey, we chatted going to 2 months and he never ask any money yet instead its a different way.. he ask me to access is bank details so when i did it looks very decent and similar to turkey bank account. I feel its a scam i still chatting him since he did not ask for money. Now he said he have troubled with the machine and ask me to access his bank account and transfer the money to one of his supplier as payment of the new drilling machine.. his bank details looks very real.. what surprise me why he ask me to access his fake bank account and make a fund transfer? He said he cannot access his bank account in the rig because of some restriction they are not allowed. Also when i ask him to talk via video call he also said not allowed its restricted even sending a photo also restricted. But he did sent some photos while he was still in the states before he went to the oil rig in turkey. His name is Joe. He got looks and look like not american more on asian looks..
bcsims
December 08, 2018

In reply to by Joy

Joy. Same happened to me but different guy. I tried to access the account and it was now blocked. So then he says he's stuck, maxed out his cards, needs $, etc etc. If you look at the top left corner when you access the site, see if the address of the bank website starts with http:// or https:// All real banks (and other websites, FB, amazon, even this site) use https:// indicating it's a secure connection. If it's http:// and it's a bank, it's fake. Also the website didn't look like any other of the banking sites I've been to, with the options for requests, etc. Joe is probably fake.
scha
June 15, 2020

In reply to by Joy

hi this i known this guy..his fb name Nicholas Kim. He said he is korean living in Berlin, Germany. Giving his account detail to access website offshorefirstservice.com. i've check the ip address for the website domain were created by nigerian person. don't trust this guy.
Leyla
December 10, 2021

In reply to by scha

Do you have his pick? As I think I met this Nicholas Kim in tinder. But he said he is from England
Tammy
December 06, 2018
Anyone hear from a man named Terry Jacques Matthew. From Canada. I need to know. Please
RNhazel
December 07, 2018
Please be aware of a guy claiming to be Austin S. Miller (General). He sent me a message while playing Words With Friends. We chatted for awhile, and then he asked me for my Gmail address to chat in hangouts. It didn’t take long for him to ask for naked pictures!
Karen Allinger
July 17, 2020

In reply to by RNhazel

He contacted me wanted to be on google hangouts then said he needed $5000. To send me his portfolio he won’t send me any pictures of him cause he said he get court martialed gave me a name of a diplomat to transfer the money then gave me the name of a bank in Colorado he’s from Hawaii?!?!?? Said he has a son and his wife died in a car crash and his foster parents got murdered I found an obituary and it named him as a grandson and he has a grand daughter when I ask him about medals he received he doesn’t want to talk about them I believe he is a scam artist keep away from him
Botsey
December 07, 2018
Had a guy, wife died in child birth, son 10 yrs old in boarding school. Worked on an oil rig in Syria. He was pushy about seeing my picture and getting my email and phone number. Essays every time he visits his son in boarding school he asks if he has found a mother for him. Sent a poem to me about how much he loved me. I blocked him.
Staceygeo
January 29, 2019

In reply to by Botsey

Sounds like the same guy! Mine was an ortho surgeon from California and was working for UN in Somolia now. Has a 14 year old son that would love to get to know me and have be his mom. Loved me when he first saw me. Doesn’t want to video chat says camera is broke . Son in boarding school and mom died 4 years ago. Wants me to apply for vacation so we can meet! Love poems like crazy and YouTube love song audio. Want this creep to get caught!
JackieB
December 28, 2019

In reply to by Staceygeo

Stacy geo I had the same guy I think he went by James William abbott , exact story , very jealous . Picture was of a hansone man kinda gray hair ( but he might have used a different pic if u are younger ) he said he wanted to change his sons school Alex - he wanted Alex to know me as his mom , which school he said we talked about it . Then he tells me he got a call from the school the cost would be 4050 , he wanted ME to pay because where he is you can’t receive or send anything out . I told him your the DR figure it out , he said oh we are backing out? I said he is your son , if you could not pay why change schools ? I was angry with me . Then I just kept sending him links to scammers over and over , I looked him up he was not who he said surprise surprise he was from Nigeria about 20? But he had some convincing lines I have to tell you !
Curious Cat
December 07, 2018
How do you do a face check on the computer?
Kathleen Wilkinson
January 08, 2020

In reply to by Curious Cat

Anyone know Paul kimmick oill engineer says he works in northern Ireland but comes from California has a son called cieran who is 14 with bad asthma lives in a boarding school is on WhatsApp and you love
Curious Cat
December 07, 2018
How do you do a photo check on the computer?
Tango5
December 09, 2018
Does anyone please know a guy name Tim Scott who said is from “California” and “Works for UNICEF” . He just communicates via Hangouts, he doesn’t wanna video chat, I’m asking for my Sister, I’m afraid about this guy, you know.... if he’s real or using someone else pictures and info. This is crazy.
Maybe the same…
December 10, 2018

In reply to by Tango5

I met a guy on Tinder 4 months ago says he's working for Unicef from CA. Very handsome. Speaks with a Spanish accent. Says he's half German/Spanish.
Thesameperson?
December 10, 2018

In reply to by Tango5

Does he have a 209 area code and goes by the name of Donald E Waters, 40 yrs old. Keeps asking for Sephora and iTunes cards.
ACourter
December 10, 2018
I was talking to a guy who says he's a doctor....orthopedic surgeon...on contract with the UN in Jordan. Told me he's originally from Turkey...but has residence in Washington,DC. He has traveled to many countries and speaks several different languages. His parents and sister were killed in an auto accident when he was 26. He was married for 5 years...they have a son who is in boarding school here in the states. He has sent pictures ...he's very handsome. I questioned him whether I was talking to the man in the pictures...he has tried to video chat with me on several occasions but it has always been poorly timed and I have always missed them...and when I try to return...the same. He says he was falling in. Love with me.... Wants to meet...he wanted to come here for Christmas!! He gave me an email for me to write the UN to request his vacation leave.... unitednations- leavesdepartment. intl @ protonmail. com I began to ??? him....why do I have to ask for your leave....and what would I say? Mind you....he has not asked for a penny from me.... He said...I will compose the letter for you....and you can forward it to the email...and he did.... But I didn't...because at the end of the email it said "I am ready to incur any charges that this may cause your office" I wrote him back ...and said...you didn't tell me there would be charges...and I am not prepared to accept them should there be any. I then told him that Christmas is not a good time to come visit that he needs to wait till after the New Year when I'm settled in my new house...because I am staying at my mothers right now. He hasn't spoken for 3 days now.....hmmmm. Dr. Matheus James is his name.
Leelee
December 10, 2018
Anyone heard of a bloke called Gareth Cullen Electrical contractor I child in boarding school Wife died cancer Is Irish but bought up in Norway by uncle Mother lives in Perth Australia Reached out to me via f/b messenger Shut down messenger and f/b next day Asked me to chat on hangouts Talked on the phone plenty / claims to be a Christian Wants to marry me and take me travelling etc etc etc I fell for this guy ( I’m a widow of 9 years) so I’m out of the loop with all this cat fishing stuff ! Now is stuck in turkey and customs will not release his Machinery Tonight he asked me for a loan And promised to give it right back After the deal was completed He is suppose to be coming to see me and bringing daughter for Xmas I told him I have no money And I accused him of being a scammer He played the “ poor me” syndrome and made it look like I should feel guilty . We have spoken / texted/google hangouts video call . I keep asking him to open messenger because it’s SO much better But he hasn’t I’ve researched a lot about catfish And narcissistic personalities Put his pic in google search —- nothing Googled his name —— nothing Why am I even doing that lol Gut instinct perhaps These guys / gals are so good at luring in ppl AM I BEING CATFISHED ???????? Is my gut instinct right ??? I told him I’m having a break for a couple of days
Khara_2005
December 09, 2018
Does anybody have talked to a guy name Tommy Jones, if so, let me know?
Samantha
December 11, 2018

In reply to by Khara_2005

I might. Was talking to someone named Thomas, but used the name Tommy Jones once. Said it was an accident. Probably the same. What's his story?
Don-tru
February 18, 2019

In reply to by Samantha

My friend is talking to someone named Thomas Jones. I tell her its a scam but she wont listen.
Don't uscountry gurl
December 09, 2018
Anyone know of a Thomas Myers a Marine in Syria?
SandraLynn
December 09, 2018
Was talking to a guy supposedly a civil engineer from texas.Josh B. He started asking for a 75.00 amazon card a week "to keep his internet going so he could talk to me".He didnt get it. Told me I didnt care and didnt want to help him.We no longer speak.Beware of this sleazy slick scammer!
Momof3
December 09, 2018
My guy is named Jackson Walters has several Facebook profiles. First red flag was the I love you after like 3 days of talking. Then the ITunes card and then needed my name, bank, and a scan of my credit card to “make a deposit”. I have pictures and will gladly send to anyone. Also uses the phone number Name used: Jackson Walters Phone #352-448-7651
Red
February 24, 2020

In reply to by Momof3

Seems familiar to someone I have started chatting too, same name. Can I see photos please to either put my mind at rest or know for sure I'm been scammed
Momof3
December 09, 2018
Jackson Walters also claims to be a chief surgeon in Damascus. Needs the ITunes cards to get data so we can talk. I’m not giving up any information to this guy
Salo
December 09, 2018
Ryan George has been scamming my mother Saying he has a construction business & his Money is stuck in customs. Sent her a fake bank profile to show he has money. Saying he is coming to take her and live in CT. He says he is stuck in immigration. Customs won't release his I ey. My mum has given him her pension for 3 months almost and is broke now. She still wants to give him more. Is anyone else being scammed by Ryan George. I have his picture. Need someone to knock some common sense into my mother's head.
Fedupwithscammers
August 29, 2019

In reply to by Salo

My next door neighbor, a widow, has recently been scammer by a Ryan. He also pretended to be a builder. I would love to see the picture you have.
bettsy
December 10, 2018
Hi everyone, I’m just wondering if any one spoken to a Ethan-billy. I was to a man before who tried to scam me but this guy is totally different. He’s from Texas but In Afghanistan on peace keeping, has a daughter who is 15. I have heaps of photos of both and one as recent as yesterday from him. I’ve seen photos of him and his daughter together and I’ve even talked to him daughter on instagram. That’s the only place we talk. I’m totally confused to weather he is a scammer or not.
Scampatrol
December 10, 2018
I met this guy on POF, by the name of Charles Pacehelle or Ryan Pacehelle, it might be spelled like this Pasehelle. The guy is nice looking, I knew something wasn't right about him because the pictures looked fake. But that that didn't stop me from hitting the flirt button. He inbox me and the conversation was going good until he told me to download WhatsApp. We carried on the conversation and while we were texting I was going back and forth between him and the site, he had already taken his profile down. Fast forward.....he sent me a screenshot of a text from the military data saying that he needs an iTunes card to replenish his data so that he can communicate with me. I ask him what he showing me this for and he said that he don't have access to his account and you can't purchase the card anywhere but the US. I waited before I actually purchased the card then when I did get it, I sent the info he needed. Well later that day as we were texting he tried to tell me that wherever I got the card from they frauded me. I ask him how was that possible when I asked before I left the store was there anything else I needed to do and the cashier said no. He then went on to say there was nothing in his account and that I needed to go get another one. I told him no I have my receipt and that he needed to stop lying about he don't have the funds. He wasn't expecting me to say I had my receipt. I sent a copy of the receipt but I covered up my card info. Then he came back and ask for a steam card, so I waited before I got that one. In the process of him waiting he then tries to butter me up because he thought he could get more money from me than the $100 I've already given him. This dude had sent me a picture of a ring he so called purchased before he left for West Africa, I ask him who was it for he said me. I told him what made him think I was going to marry him and I haven't even met him. He said that was the whole purpose for asking for $750 for application fee to leave the mission and come home. I told him that he could stay right there and finish it out, I can wait. Long story short, this guy tried every single time to see if he could get more money including video calling me. I ask him for what, for him to tell me we got a bad connection. O wasn't falling for it. We've also exchanged explicit photos and when I finally said enough I told him that I knew what was coming next and that I'm prepared for it and as far as the photos I could care less about it they're just pictures. He got mad started calling me a bi!@#,I ask him why the name calling, I didn't lie to you, you lied to me. He asked me not to text him again. That's a learning lesson for me, not to trust everyone on these websites.
Had been scammed
May 18, 2020

In reply to by Scampatrol

Same thing happened to me, he said it would cost 750 for him to be sent home and claimed his superior officer would send me an email to confirm, for which he did. Then he claimed he had to pay for 400.00 for bullets he misplaced or he could not come home. I am learning a lot of these are scams and coming from military family I started asking questions. I found none of that is true and they are allow to talk to their loves with out purchasing anything. When you stop giving them gift cards or money the name calling comes. If they ask you to go to Hangouts or Whatapps, its a scam.
ANGRY
December 11, 2018
Please stay AWAY from RAYMOND SMITH on Facebook. The photo is of a white hair man with sunglasses in the snow who says he is from Oslo, Norway and lives in Houston. My poor Mom of 80 has her heart invested and sending money. They are CONTROLLING her thru Facebook messenger and making her think he is out of the Gulf of Mexico on an oil rig. He says he is a widow and has a daughter by the name of Cindy who is in boarding school in Spain. My Mom has already sent 25 thousand until I stepped in and have been doing EVERYTHING in MY POWER to STOP these people. They are STILL trying to get as MUCH money as they can but the banks are STOPPING her from wiring these SCUMBAGS any MORE money. I never thought my Mom would send money, so BEWARE these people are VERY good at what they DO.
Hopelessly scammed
December 11, 2018
Does anyone know someone named Craig Huston from New Jersey but uses a Texas phone number he said he was having trouble getting iTunes cards in his area and he really needed to send documents to his boss sti got him one then few days later he wanted to know what I was going to get him for his birthday since it was around the corner so just for the heck of it I asked him what he wanted and out of the blue he says an a new iPhone X that that would make him the happiest and I told him he was crazy to ask me we had just met not too long ago I shouldn’t have sent him the iTunes card he was very rude because the card took along time to come through he kept bugging me for it all night long . So when I told him I wasn’t going to get him iPhone he got really upset. So people be careful out their I met him on instagram. I thought he was the one. Right away he wanted to know how much I made for money the questions are shameful.
ariesgirl
December 11, 2018
I was talking to someone named Jimmy Krane (Instagram handle: jimmykrane). Says he works for a textile company in South Africa. I told him that I wouldn't help him get back the States. Have him blocked on both WhatsApp and Instagram, as he has threatened that he will "release all your nudes and videos to the public.", and, "I'll put it all over the internet. Every blog would have it.. You can be sure of that.". Do I respond or just leave him alone?
Pissedoff
December 11, 2018
These scammers are using pictures of fallen soldiers . Making up heart breaking stories to get you to feel sorry for them and to give in and send them money . They are poor people doing what they can to get ahold of a laptop and there is a whole hallway filled with them in shorts and no shirt feeding all kinds of people these pathetic stories. It is so sad how they are using pictures of men and women who were killed in battle of our country and therefore giving the deceased a bad name
NoWay
December 11, 2018
Anybody else dealing with frankgreg28 on Instagram?? Been chatting a while and just asked for $2000.00 today. Image search shows no other photos but no info at all on cell # or name. I do check people out. My gut tells me it's a scam. Just be careful if you are talking to him.
Ineedhelpasap!
December 11, 2018
I have meet a man on the internet 10/18/18. We have been talking every since. I think I'm being scammed. I have an account open for him, I feel I am being taken after all I have read, I really need help ,help right away.!!!!! Someone please reach out and help me , I need to know if he 8s scamming me. My heart is broken all ready, I lost my fiancee in May , so I probably am a good target, thank you ThMrh
FTC Staff
December 12, 2018

In reply to by Ineedhelpasap!

When someone you just met asks you to open an account, that's a sign of a scam. Some scammers use people to help them transfer stolen money. They don't reveal that the money is stolen - they tell a story to hide the purpose for the transaction. They meet people online, create a relationship, and ask their new sweethear to use an existing bank account, or open a new account. Then the scammer asks the victim to receive and transfer money.

If you do this for a scammer, your name is on the bank account and on the money transfer forms. If you get involved with one of these schemes, you could lose money and personal information, and you could get into legal trouble.

Other scammers send fake checks to their new friends. They ask the person to deposit the check, and then quickly transfer funds overseas. It can take days for the bank to find out a check is fake. If you transfer money before the bank has fully cleared the check, you can lose money. If the bank finds out the check was fake after you sent the money, you must repay the bank all the money you sent. The bank might charge you a fee for the bad check, or close your account.

tonya
December 13, 2018

In reply to by FTC Staff

I have a question? After I found this and started believing that I got scammed by Donald Williams Kevin on Instagram. I had to connected my credit c company to cancel the payment that he made and I guess investigation team took care of it, and I got it returened back in my cc, and then I blocked him. Its been a 2 weeks since then and a few days ago he sent me email which I forgot about, I think he is blackmail me saying that I owned him back $$$ after he made a payment and then I blocked him. He said if I dont give him back the $ and I may become liable for payment of all the costs and attorney's fee if he have to involve his lawyer and file a lawsuit to get what I owe him and also be liable for paymet of additional money as a penalty, as well as legal interest. help out here please?