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Looking to start a new relationship? For some, that may mean meeting a new love interest online. Word to the wise: sometimes it’s best to lead with your head and not your heart.

Millions of Americans use dating sites, social networking sites, and chat rooms to meet people. And many forge successful relationships. But scammers also use these sites to meet potential victims. They create fake profiles to build online relationships, and eventually convince people to send money in the name of love.

The Federal Trade Commission receives thousands of reports each year about romance scammers who create fake online relationships only to steal their victims’ money.

Unfortunately, an online love interest who asks for money is almost certainly a scam artist.

The FTC’s new infographic, developed with the American Bankers Association Foundation, lists common signs of online dating scams and what to do if someone you meet online asks you for money.

Below are some tips to identify a real romance versus a scammer cruising for a target.

Online Dating Scams. Has an online love interest asked you for money? That's a scam. Scammers know millions of people use online dating sites. They are there, too, hiding behind fake profiles. Signs of a scam: Professes love quickly. Claims to be from the U.S., but is overseas for business or military service. Asks for money, and lures you off the dating site. Claims to need money — for emergencies, hospital bills, or travel. Plans to visit, but can’t because of an emergency. $220 million lost in 2016. $56 million lost in 2012. Reports to the FBI tripled over 5 years (4,476 reports in 2012; 14,546 reports in 2016) What to do: Slow down — and talk to someone you trust. Don’t let a scammer rush you. Never wire money, put money on a gift or cash reload card, or send cash to an online love interest. You won’t get it back. Contact your bank right away if you think you’ve sent money to a scammer. Report your experience to: • The online dating site • Federal Trade Commission: ftc.gov/complaint • Federal Bureau of Investigation: ic3.gov. Learn more at ftc.gov/imposters and aba.com/engagement

Please share this information with others. Victims may be embarrassed to talk about their experiences, but you can help. A simple phone call, email or text, saying “Look what I just found” and sharing this information may make a difference in someone else’s life.

JulysChild
November 22, 2019
This guy, talks a good game Sweet, thoughtful, attentive - concerned, caring - and so in love with you. His name is Major John Thomson Siva, born in Sweden, Dad born in states, Mum born in UK - and he was born and brought up in Sweden for 24 years, before going to California and joining the US army. His written english is very good, almost perfect. Because he is, active service, no incoming or outgoing calls. His laptop and cell / mobile phone are older models, so no video chat. That is his prime story. He was born on the 21st of April 1961; his wife died ten years ago in an accident(type unknown), and he had a 4-year-old daughter at the time. He put her in a boarding school in Sweden and continued his work with the military. Her name is Mary, and she wants her daddy to get her a new mummy. The daughter is now 14. He put his resignation paperwork in a year ago, and he is due to be released soon, maybe the 20th of December 2019. He wants to spend Christmas with me. I said, you should spend Christmas with your daughter, and he said no, it was more important for him to be here with me. I then went to a US Army website which speaks of dating fraud, and it said ask for his unit# and his MOS. I asked him for this, the subject was changed and he never answered. Last Friday he mssaged that he was not sleeping, stressed, anxious. This is a guy who claims he is out on patrol every day with his men. A guy who needs a clear head! Of course, I asked why. The bank deposit for the carer of his daughter did not go through. He had frantically trying to access his bank account online. He spent countless hours, and he was locked out. I told him to call his bank. He said he had got in touch with him, that they felt he was hacked or providing financial support to the Taliban. That he'd have to go into his bank in person to fix things. His bank is in Sweden, and he is unable to get there obviously. I then told him, his bank has many branches. I then did a search for military assistance, who could help him temporarily. he ignored it. Today, he said I had to help him, now, today! He gave me an email address, for me to PayPal 1000Euro to him, for his daughter's care. I sent .o1pence to the email address provided, it came back as having been sent to €0.01 EUR to Joseph Simeone. Below is other info about him. He is cute as hell, I do have 4 or 5 photos of him that he sent me, if it is even him. I have been dating a guy online for awhile. All of a sudden he has asked for money. He is supposed to be a Maj in the US army in Kabul. He asked me to send 1000 euro to this email address using PayPal jonova45 @ he has been using jthomson732 @ , as his personal email address. He uses 'Hangout', John Thomson as his 'hangout' name, BUT he says his name is John Thomson Silva, major in the US army in Kabul. I have asked for his unit #; and have not been given one. I have asked for his MOS, and also not been given one. When he asked me for money, I asked for his address, to send him a gift. To which he replied - this is a war zone, we do not get things from people on the outside. I know this is complete bull. The people in the forces look forward to getting post. So, this is a confirmed lie.
Dont waste my time
November 21, 2019
Oh! I met the wonderful Henry Coleman from Bakersfield, CA. Claimed to be a petroleum engineer working in Denmark, but was stationed in an oil rig in the north sea. Used to work for Shell but now decided to be an independent contractor and would be back home in a week, but oh no! He is having problems with his software and needs me to purchase eBay cards so that he can do the upgrades. Why eBay gift cards? Well, thats where he buys it from. He meant to tell me that You buy highly specialized computer software from eBay. If i don't well then, he wont be able to go back home for the next month. This was not sounding right from the start, he had weird obsession with my financial status and wanting to pay all of my debts, he wanted to be with me but because of work it was impossible. Thing is, these people are getting better and better. He has absolutely no online presence, so his name brings nothing up as well as reverse searching his pictures. The name of his “company” is placed no where near him. His phone number tracks back to Texas and this whatsapp number tracks to another place. You are never able to talk to him or video call him because of the bad reception in the rig. And noone else can help him only you because if he tries to buy these things they will freeze his accounts and he is not home to fix it. Guys! Beware! If something is too good don't trust it, no one will ever ask for you money or make you do weird things. Also, inform others! I was glad that I found similar stories and avoided me from wasting my time.
elenoliv
November 22, 2019
Please be aware of this name KEVIN KLAUS he says he's german, and he says he is a pipeline repair engineer working in Athens Greece, says he lives in Manhattan New York, I was taken with 7500, I am so ashamed I let it get that far but let me tell you he is very good at what he does, he story will start with his mother getting sick and on the way to send her money he gets rob, that is where it begins from there it one problem after another, with work machines and money for food and hotel bills, please be aware and remember this name, please
Pretty , but o…
November 22, 2019
One more comment on a scammer named Greg Anderson... I posted my original story about him on Nov 20th, 2019. He is still on wwf, I have not played him, but can look him up in my current players. He has a two new pictures, one of a cute fluffy tiny white dog, maybe a Pomeranian breed. The other picture he is using looks like a small stack of books with a butterfly on top. Please be careful, he is EXTREMELY SMOOTH. His lines are very , very romantic. He may change his story with every person, who knows.
Crazymixedup
November 24, 2019
Anyone heard of Walter Francesco Kleitz Italian , lost his wife has a 20 yr old daughter in college works for oil rigs recently left CA to work shows bank acct with large amount of money in it yet says he needs money because machines are broke down and no access to his account where he is wants me to get a loan use cc for cash Buy a house etc
Bbeyes64
August 13, 2020

In reply to by Crazymixedup

I am talking to him. Hasn't asked for money but got irrate when i said he was a fraud. Met him on Scrabble
Yenz19
November 24, 2019
A guy contacted me in Instagram, name Erickson half American / Asian. he is so handsome, he working at petroleum company in California, as a Rig manager, he is the only son 31 y/o single, he wants to marry me mother of his children. He sent me a lovely message, and he ask me to move in hangout because he will disable his Instagram account. He told me that his work will move to Brazil, after few days he asked me a wrist watch gift for him for his birthday, and of course I did not send a gift for him, then he asked send money $1000 , because I'm so stupid I trusted him, I sent out Money through western union, after a days he asked me to send $400 iTunes card for him and I sent the iTunes card to him, and now asking again money for his mom.I told him that I don't have money, he begging me. I saw him again in Instagram I ask him about it, he so mad at me.. And now we still chatting on hangout, There's any here meet Erickson on instagram? Please let me know,
hopeheiscaught
November 25, 2019
I have posted a couple of times about my scammer Jon Bach Fitzpatrick. He speaks French and claims to be an artist from Texas and Long Island. I finally found the person who's pictures he is using and Jon admitted he was a scammer. He thinks we are all stupid and easily fooled. Jon is Nigerian and without a soul or conscience. Now that he has been caught I am sure that he has changed names and photos but I think he will stick to his pathetic script. Please beware!
Justin
November 28, 2019
Hello. I think I been scammed and wonder if anyone has heard of this one. Her Instagram is jameselizabeth190. And her first picture is from August 1. She followed me and started talking to me like she loves me and wanted to be with me. She has an iPhone but uses a fake number to talk to me and I have sent her stream gift cards in the past cause she needs it to use her phone. We keep talking but I just want to see if she’s legitimate or has anyone else been scammed by her? All the help would be appreciated thank you
Nanacarol
November 28, 2019
I have been chatting with someone since June. I have given him $300 for a suit he had to have. He was in a job in Hong Kong. And was coming to supposedly see me in September but he was supposedly in taxi accident and has been in hospital. He wanted me pay medical bills of only $1800. I would not send it and told him taxi service should cover it. After back and forth for weeks they paid his bills. Now he doesn’t like their food and I have read the food is not good at hospital he is in. He wants $250 for a weeks worth of food. I have not sent it but of course he makes me feel guilty since today is Thanksgiving. I think $250 is a lot. Also I did a search on TinEye of the picture in his suit and it found it in 2018 and 2017 so that should be enough proof he’s lying isn’t it? There are pictures with about 20 different names of him but he claims he was scammed by them and blames them for picture in suit. I just need someone to tell me he is scamming me and not send anymore money. He is really guilting me which I know is what they are good at.
21Fox1
November 29, 2019

In reply to by Nanacarol

He IS scamming you. Do not send him anymore money.
Beware
December 20, 2019

In reply to by Nanacarol

She is scamming you they love to ask you for steam cards itunes cards and even amazon one so they can trade it in using bitcoin. Dont fall for it as much as you want to believe she is stealing your money.
21Fox1
November 28, 2019
I have one on the go that I am sure is about to ask me for money. I admit he has been very charming but I was suspicious from the beginning, he calls himself Anderson (Andy) Garcia, living in Cleveland, OH. Bitcoin and Forex Trader. He is in the middle of a divorce and has a sick son. He is telling me he is in Russia now and is having some difficulties........just waiting for him to ask but want to put it on here in case someone has the same guy.
21Fox1
November 29, 2019

In reply to by 21Fox1

.....And now he has asked for $4000, he thinks I'm arranging to send it to him thru PayPal..........I'm just playing him until he gets too impatient and then I'll tell him what I think. I'm just trying to waste his time right now so he has less time to prey upon people.
mac
November 30, 2019
ive got scamed i have a lot of proff ive made a report and have got no help from fbi they are still trying to get me for more money i dont know where and how to upload and send thjis info someone please help me
redcarlover
January 23, 2020
hi has anyone had contact from Henry Fadhlan? was raised in Germany but Mom is an American--dead of course. He is currently on a ship in Japan area--he has had his "Aunt" mail me a credit union check & wants it changed into bitcoin & add to his account. Is this legal? Any help is appreciated--thanks
redcarlover
January 23, 2020

In reply to by redcarlover

me again--i googled his name "Fadhlan" - per Google--this name is Indonesian but he his looks is nothing like that race--he is blue eyed & blonds hair. He became very upset about me Googling! He has now taken his name off of wwf & hangouts. He is part of a scam group--says he found a guy with his last name & was using his email to get befriend a lady named Patty Ramirez & had her send me a $ to buy bitcoins to send to him. Once I located her on I_Messenger, she told me she was in very bad financial situation & i Returned $ to her. He has since come up with a story that he was helping out the other Henry's sick son! Still chatting with him - but will not send him any $. unable to send a picture of him. His email is: henry fadhlan424@ -- if anyone is contacted by him--Please let me know & don't fall for him.. He's working on a ship in Asian ocean--also has he's a athletic trainer. He has a daughter & son living in Germany with their Grandma--wife passed.
Blanche
December 02, 2019
Has anyone had a gentleman named Steve Scarborough contact you by Facebook switch to hangouts, claim to love you then ask for money for sick 14 year old son. Works on oil carrier boat
TU
December 02, 2019
Anyone here chatting with Antony Walter living in Zurich working on oil rig in No. Indian Ocean. Widower with daughter Sophia in boarding school in Georgia. Just curious.
Heartless
December 02, 2019
I was scammed by someone that said his name wasJeff Williams. He of course didn't want to talk on the original site and I set up an account on hangouts. He was full of flattery to good to be true so when the first time money came up I started searching for like cases of scammers. Then I confronted him and he of course reassured me but I was watching for it. The next he said something he vanished when I wouldn't help. But ladies he was a smooth talker.
SummerRain
December 03, 2019
So I met someone online and military profeses love but instead of asking for money he wants to have money delivered to my house for me to hold when he gets back?
Cindy
December 03, 2019
I was contacted on the Zoosk dating site. Said his name was Richard Benson. Was a petroleum engineer in the Atlantic Ocean, but lived in Diamondhead, MS. Really smooth, until we got closer for him to come home. Then he needed me to transfer his money to, what I know now was a fake account. I thought I was okay. Next, he asked me for money. I didn’t send it. I dumped him and it ripped my heart out. I can’t believe how cruel people are! I still have the phone number and e-mail address. Not sure if anything can be done! It’s amazing the lengths they will go to. There were 2 others, as well. When you get close to meeting, they disappear!
Debnurse
February 10, 2020

In reply to by Cindy

Yes this is the same. Person and scenario that I had contact with from November to February. I know how it feels. Very slick until I called him out on his scam and said I should apologize and said I want to leave him on the oil rig. I told him to get a job and stop scamming women. We should put this behind us and continue to stand stand as women. I filed a report also with Zoosk . Women against scammers keep strong
karen
March 20, 2020

In reply to by Cindy

Yes Richard Benson from Zoosk dating site. Lived in Brazil and came to states 2014. Petroleum engineer on oil rig south of Miami. Lives in Louisville Ky area. Widow as of 2017 with 25 yo daughter. Lots of prayer, emails , texting, few phone calls for 10 days and I called his bluff. He had not asked for anything as of that time. But he got angry when I forwarded the link to this website! So funny! Loser! Ladies be careful and NEVER send anything or give private info about yourself.
Candy
December 04, 2019
I was contacted on facebook.by a man named Chris Hasset. We were only talking. He suddenly starts saying he very interested in me. This has been going on for over two weeks . He has sent numerous pics of himself and his children. He says he is a pipeline engineer on a BP rig 190 miles south of New Orleans , LA. This guy says his company phone's internet connection needs topped off. He ask me to buy him a Google apps card worth a hundred dollars to help him with his internet connection. He didn't say how he would use this card to get his internet connection to improve. He has promised me the moon. I am still very leery. He has not put a lot of pressure on me about it. He tells me he can use the Google app card to get a stronger internet connection On the rig. He wants the card to be worth $100.00. My question is can a Google app money card be used to bolster his internet connection? All of his pics match consistently too. I have read up on the Google app card and it does not mention it can be used for that type of application. Can it be used for improving a connection or buying internet connection? I feel silly asking these questions but at the same time there seems to be believability concerning him. I have investigated all types of scams concerning money cards and Google apps cards. I just need to know if this could have a remote possibility of being true. Thanks!
Curious dater
December 04, 2019
I have had two men from Plenty of Fish dating app. recently tell me they were going to Instanbul, Turkey for business. Coincidence? Or scam? Now thinking scam, I’ve told the second guy I can’t even afford to drive 3 hours away. I called him out, but then I researched the company he supposedly owns and there is a website and he messaged me from the number listed on the business website so I second guessed it thinking maybe this guy is for real and although I told him I can’t afford anything he’s still talking to me. And yes professing love quickly, I just played along. He’s supposedly on the flight now. Seeing these other comments has me convinced now, so do I just stop texting with with him or call him out again?
Boeboe
December 04, 2019
Does the name Sergio Mantenazzi ring a bell?
declanone
January 23, 2020
Hi i was victim of potential online fraud through google chat and twitter. User said they were US marine in financial trouble and asked for small amount of money. I think i've blocked user on all sites and deleted data. I'm worried some personal info i gave could be used against me in future. Should i report to local Irish Police?....Declan
Mummykiwi
December 05, 2019
Anyone come across an Ethan Janssen.So much seemed real of what he said but asked me to buy a steam card so he could continue to email from a cargo ship he is working. Didn't get nasty just said we would lose contact for 3 weeks until he could get internet again that time is nearly up and I'm questioning because of the steam card request
DesertGuy
December 06, 2019
Anyone been scammed by a soldier claiming to be in Afganistan? I sent him $50, now he asked me again.
Beware
December 20, 2019

In reply to by DesertGuy

Well I have been solicited by one his name is William and he needed money to turn his internet on. I played it like I would but never did he got very mad and the lovey dovey soon turned into anger really fast lol
Nebmverfellforit
December 08, 2019
Can I still report scammers if I never sent them anything
Hanzi bride to be
December 09, 2019
Nathan Hanzi, Romanian, claims to be oil pipeline contractor, working on rig off port of Anchorage, no internet service, only phone. I ordered pipeline supplies for him using his own money. HOWEVER , needs a little more to help pay for shipping, his bank account was suspended because the bank suspected fraud, didn't recognize where my computer. His wife died of cancer, Paradise/Chico, California. 18 yr old daughter, Emma, in college. Worked for Exxon apparently. What do you all think?
Jane
December 09, 2019
Ever heard about scam that makes you apply for vacation on the others behalf ( the person your talking to) and then gives you an email to the “ company “ . And the company policy says I have to pay 4000 dollars for processing a vacation account bla bla . Seems very legit with the emails going front and back through me and the company . But I’m almost sure it is a scam , seems to good to be true
Almost took th…
December 09, 2019
GREG ANDERSON is a scammer. He is playing on word with friends, extremely handsome older man, however also several pictures..one in a suit, body building pose, oiled body, lots of muscles, then one in an open necked shirt..plus two more at a beautifully set table, picture window overlooking the ocean. On his wwf picture right now he appears as a little white fluffy dog, another picture with him holding a small child. I have a suspicion he has several personas. Claims to be an independent contractor,oil, in the Gulf of Mexico..wife died seven years ago, one daughter, born in bogota, grew up in Portland Oregon, has a home in Lansing Michigan..bank account frozen stateside.blah, blah, blah I’m given him a new lease on life, wants to take care of me forever.out of nowhere after a few days of chats on hangout. He needs money to upgrade his computer. Asks me to get him some kind of WalMart cards......RED FLAG. Why would I give cards to someone I did not know, turned him down flat..he turned on me in an ugly way. It was over..I read on a oil scammer sight back to 2018, he took large sums of money from three ladies. GREG ANDERSON , probably several other names. Don’t send cards, money, pictures or anything to someone you meet on the internet..your gut feeling is always right!!!!
dene58
December 10, 2019
I was contacted by a LucasRaymond060 on Instagram. I believe this to be a scam, also— very similar: good looking, 51 years old, petroleum engineer currently finishing contract in Yemen, 11 year old son lives in FL with housekeeper. Lucas was born in Germany and came to USA at age 6. Lived in PA and moved to FL as an adult. No siblings and his parents are also gone. Moved from talking in Instagram to Telegram. Professed his love for me within a week. Then wanted me to buy him a steam card. Needs it for work/data on his phone. I wouldn’t buy it, said his work should do that. Anyone else run into this guy?
Marinela
December 11, 2019
Does anyone know about a Peter Morrison ??? Wife and son died in a car accident...now working on a oil rig...from San Diego, California...his bank account blocked and no money for electric jackets...no much data, need money for internet...need my card details and online banking details to have money sent from a friend from Korea...
Marketta
December 12, 2019
I have chatting guy named Mark Olson... very nice and cool USA army guy. We met via Tinder. He asked me to send gift cards...about 1 month chatting... He Is widoved and have 1 son... He promised to come to my country when his duty is finishing in Afganistan. Have somebody met the same guy? Any pictures of him? Tattoos in his pictures...?
Notcheatedbymo…
January 12, 2020

In reply to by Marketta

Yes i chatted with a similarguy. All stolen photos. Probably suckers
Don't uscatfish
December 12, 2019
Someone I have been talking to about 10 months by the name Jeffery James Dean who is currently in Turkey and was held up there due to some kind of business and asked money for medical services plus money to clear some kind of tax in Turkey. Can anyone tell me if she is also approached by this person?
Prettyeyes19
December 13, 2019
Has anyone been contacted by a man name Jamal Philips from New Jersey. He is a scam artist as well. He tell you sweet things and promise you things and never deliver always have an excuse.
Flyaway2020
December 14, 2019
I am in this situation now. Goes by Micheal Conniee in IG. Messaged me through words with friends. Claims he was born in ohio but moved to Canada when he got married. His wife and mother were killed in a car accident 3 years ago and has a son named Sammy. Sammy is in Canada with a nanny while he finishes up a job on a rig in Scotland. Apparently the.machine broke down and he is responsible for it and cant leave until it is fixed. Also is a trader with Forex. Wanted his accountant to send me money just so I would have some, then send him the rest so he could fix the machine and.be home before Christmas. I said no to the money because 1. Dont need it and 2. Just. Not doing it. When I said no, he said that due to company policy they cant send the money directly to him. I still did no, and he finally quit I called him out on being a scammer and he of course denied it. Just told me he is in love with me and wants me to move to canada, he even has asked my ring size. All his pictures are old as be says he is 50. When I asked for a current picture he says his camera is broken on his phone. The only photos are him with his supposed son, some pictures from a wedding, one of him and his dog and one with a big fish, anyone else dealing with guy.
helping friend
December 14, 2019
anyone have experience with lady name Joyce Kyere Lowther - need any info about experience trying to show friend he is being scammed
shajohnso
December 15, 2019
I met this guy in zoosk.Name “Harry Jones” He said that he was a captain that works with princess cruise ship. He had a 6 year old daughter name Ellen her mom was a drug head and left them and he had full custody and Ellen was with a nanny. he asked me for iPhones Apple watch and air buds . I sent him money for his phone bill which was getting turned off , and plane ticket to come see me for 3500.00$ Then asked for cab fair for 500$ . He sent me photos from the airport in jomo Kenyatta which were from the Internet. After I caught him he lied and said someone hacked his phone . After he got the money and items he kept lying saying he was coming . He sent pictures from being on plane . He kept on with the lie and finally sent me a text stating that he had a car accident broke his leg and going under surgery .
MLeeMLeen't us…
May 18, 2020

In reply to by shajohnso

My friend was contacted by a "Captain Harry Jones" who said he was the Captain of the Royal Princess, divorced two years, had sole custody of his five year old daughter who lived with a nanny in SC because her mother was a drug addict. Some of the recent photos he has sent her looked photoshopped. Shes already sent money via Western Union because he "dropped" his phone in the water while "taking" the cruise ship to Manila. Now he says he's coming here to meet her. Sent her a "letter" that he put her on with Princess as his wife, that they ran a background check so now he has her social security numbers address everything. Does any of this sound like what you went thru?
Jerbear
December 15, 2019
I met a man on Instagram, Derek worrell, he’s actually still on Instagram so beware. He apparently is on a oil rig in Norway lol, asked me for calling cards or Sephora!! He has a 12 year old daughter and 15 son , his wife died of cancer 4 years ago. He is madly in love with me. I’m sorry but I’m not a fool. I called him out on it and he took down is profile and then brought it right back up. Apparently he is a GID fearing man. Wow!! He will post a pic of him and his two kids having pizza, he is about 55 , the other pic is of his daughter and son standing by a bid tree
Elizabeth renk…
January 10, 2020
This dr found me on Facebook. He said he loved me right away I was his queen. Soulmate. His everything. First he wanted a game card. And after that. He wanted $5000 for an investment. I haven’t even met him. He says he is an oral surgeon and lives in Tennessee His name is Donald Emerson. Anyone know him? Of course I never sent any money
outreach
December 17, 2019
Has any one been contacted thru face book by the name of Craig Townsend said he is 61 and DOB is may 3rd who says he is from Aberdeen Scotland UK and has his own business installing CCT. said has twin daughter and they are in college. He is professing love and connection this started about November 1st during conversation on messenger he said he went to Greece to do a presentation once back home he said he was awarded the contract and was headed to Cyprus Turkey and the job would take 3 weeks after he arrived he stated the Taxi driver stole his bag that had his laptop and credit cards and other cell phone. Then he said days later costumes would not release the equipment he had ordered from china for the job. days later he said Turkey raised the taxes on the job and then ask me for 40,000 I did not send it and would never give any one I don't know money he is now begging and still professing love he also ask me after the 2nd week of texting to move from messenger to whats app. He has used the term MY QUEEN quite a few times and I believe I has seen Blog with similar he has quite a thick accent and at times stutters. when speaking with him on the phone. I blocked him on face book and whats app then he called my phone this guy just doesn't give up. watch out!
Shirley Anderson
December 17, 2019
Guy on Pof goes by the name Alec Muller. Good looking, older, white beard, very muscular, works out, claims to be German, lives in the U.S but works overseas. The minute he asked me for money I knew, I just said “Sure Sweetheart”. Hung up, blocked him on my phone and sent him an email not to ever contact me again.