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If you’ve seen the news, ‘romance scammers’ are among the eighty defendants indicted today by the Department of Justice in a scheme that stole millions from Americans.

Check out this video about how to spot and protect yourself from romance scams. Then share it with your friends.

Illustration of a woman using a dating app

People reported losing $143 million in romance schemes last year, more than any other type of fraud reported to the Federal Trade Commission. But there are steps you can take – and then tell someone about. So watch the video, learn more, and pass it on.


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February 27, 2020
Anyone communicating with a Victor Maxwell? Oil rig in Gulf of Mexico.
May 08, 2020

In reply to by Snowbound

I have been communicating with a guy named Chandler Ethan --- he is using a profile picture from a guy in Floriday -- said he had to change his name due to "stuff". He is presently working on an oil rig in the Gulf of Mexico -- met him on Scrabble Go.
September 29, 2020

In reply to by Southerngal

John robert smith from Arkansas has got me to go on hangouts after playing scrabble go. Says he is on oil rig,contractor in gulf of mexico. Widower for 5 yrs aged 64. Hasn't asked for money bit says when contract ends he's coming to uk to see me. Have not given my address, he sent me and address for Arkansas bit no street name.
May 19, 2020

In reply to by Snowbound

Could be the one I was speaking too. He was going as James Gavey. Very handsome, nice smile with dimples. He is widowed?. 1 daughter. Lost his parents and lives in Texas, but is on a oil rig at the moment in spain
February 13, 2021

In reply to by Australia

Go to Instagram and check out these 2 names, Frankie Ronnie Frederick and Dave Asprey. Is this guy you are referring?
November 23, 2020

In reply to by Snowbound

Yes, supposedly lives in Los Angeles. He claims his wife and unborn child died in a car accident . Has. A son that is cared for by a Nanny. He wants to give me the world and is going to meet me soon. I have been playing along just to see what he will do. I have had enough.
March 04, 2020
Collin Scott and Mark Fitzhugh are using same pictures ! Money hungry! Mark works in the rig or an engineer stationed in South Africa ! I was a victim with this guy and sent him iPhone and iTunes $500 every other week! Careful very good and sweetness overload ! They are just ugly using good picture s! Selfish and bad accent!
March 06, 2020
So I think I’m scammed by Spencer Wayne. Anke Tacke and or Michael Eisenbone. Anyone scammed ?
March 09, 2020
This guy found me on LinkedIn, goes by the name Mike Park, born in Korea but live in US. email: parkm861 @ whatsapp ID: 1213419824 . We started chatting, he started to ask me for money for shipment of equipments from US to Turkey as he got a new contract in Turkey but bank account has been suspended due to plenty of failed attempts. Asked for US$9,000. I blocked him and he was so mad.
July 06, 2020

In reply to by Someone

sounds a little like man texting me claiming to be a petroleum engineer from Korea working on pipeline in Turkey. Divorced, 13year old daughter. 50 years old. Was fined by government for accident at site. Initially asked for $14000. I said no I didn't have it. Which is true. Now wants anything I can send to get project restarted. Anyone else have similar story?
March 09, 2020
Has anyone been scammed by a guy named leon him on IG then started video chatting on skype...just asked me for 500.00 to get his cousin who is 12 out of italy because of corona virus..
March 10, 2020
My mother-in-law is being scammed and she will not see it everything I am reading on here is the exact same thing she is being told Mike Peterson offshore rig been on the ocean for three years wife died in a car accident going to a gospel concert his dad was from Georgia but he was born in Singapore he wanted her to go to hang out but now they are on WhatsApp please help me
April 16, 2020
A man contacted me on Instagram and within 3 weeks he says he loves me. He is electromechanical engineer from New York. He went to Norway and drilled oil. Now says he is stuck and can’t pay the Tax on the contract because of the covid virus. Needs money. I was believing it was real until he asked for money
April 25, 2020

In reply to by cke

Met a man 2-3 months ago on Instagram. He lived in Pittsburgh. Now doing contract work in Lagos, Nigeria. Because of the virus, he now can’t pay his workers. He first asked for $5000. Now asked if I can send stimulus check $1200 to pay for the people that work for him. He says he loves me and calls me his woman. Only talk on google hangout. He is from Spain and is widowed. No children. Sent a couple of pictures... of him working and on his way to Nigeria.
Wyntah Sno
December 12, 2020

In reply to by cke

I was scammed, by a 51 yr old Oil Rig contracted from NY , but works on rig in Norway. He is 8 yr old son lives with teacher named Merielle. Always has many with $ bcuz his acct was closed. Asked for money for the teacher. Then he needed helicopter $. Then his son broke his back. Still can't get home from the rig. Wanted me to do Home equity loan, then wanted my bank acct #, then wanted me to receive a 45k bank check & deposit in my acct & wire money. Handsome 51 yr old. Gray & glasses full brief. korean & American David Yu Kim, Brooklyn, NY son's name Alex. Wife died 5 yrs ago (cancer) never spoke on phone or video. I think he was on a translator.
April 24, 2020
Has anyone here had contact with a oil rig worker, supposedly on a rig in the Gulf of Mexico, named Benjamin Craig, Craig Benjamin, Greg? Photo incredibly gorgeous, daughter Sonia is student at Cambridge, widower 2012, called me Mom.
June 29, 2020
I guess I just joined your club of victims. His name is Lawrence (calls himself Louis) Moore, email is: lawrencemoore092@ , phone # 709-260-0066, on an oil rig off coast of Newfoundland. Wife died in car accident, son in boarding school in Ireland. Sent Friend Request on Facebook, then asked to switch over to Hangouts app. I lost $900 sending him gift cards for his son’s computer, before my brother sent me a web message about oil rig scammers.
May 05, 2020
I am recently talking to Robert Frederick who works on an oil rig and wants me to be a beneficiary to receive money from United Nations consignment box. I told him no I don’t want responsibility for his money
May 06, 2020
Is anyone chatting with some one called Mark Sinclair? This guy claims he is "the" Vin Diesel. I chatted to him for a while a couple of years ago. Told me all his problems, saying he reckoned his wife was cheating on him with his manager!!! Alarm bells started ringing pretty early on but came to a head when he asked me for £200. Never spoke to him again. So if anyone is chatting to someone fitting that description then end it now.
magdalena v
May 07, 2020
Hi all, I have lost almost 30,000 euro to a guy named Carl Philip, apparently from Fort Worth, Texas. Working on oil rig in Russia. He contacted me in Poland where I live. I am still in shock from this. I have been really stupid. Oil rig scam is real. Please warn everyone.
August 02, 2020

In reply to by magdalena v

I was contacted by oil rig scamer, but after few days when he declared big love I started to check. And at first I discovered they all mostly widower with child in boarding school. I would never to send money or allowed to send anything to me if I don't know in person. You had a very costly lesson.
Don't use your…
March 05, 2021

In reply to by magdalena v

Hi everyone has been talking about pictures of these scammers but I don’t see them where can I see and add some of the pictures mi have received..
May 10, 2020
Has any one came across a Jeremy Grayson? I cant tell if he is for real or fake. I have already told him that I will never send money or gifts. I do not give out personal information. He sats he is a is a biomedical engineer looking to retire and relocate to find happiness. Only has mother living. Says hes from Florida. Very romantic and deep. Says around or close to 60 years old.
Peter P
May 10, 2020
Reading through these sad tales, I wonder why our government has barely done a thing to protect its citizens? If the president of the united states or the prime minister of the UK would get up and make a speech about this and actually warn people, then a lot of people would listen and be more informed and could avoid losing their life's savings.
May 19, 2020
Has anyone talked to a guy called. James Garvey. He is from Texas, widowed left with one daughter called Nancy. He's apparently a great oil rig contractor and is currently stuck in Spain. He's called twice with a heavy accent, even though he was brought up in the USA, but born in Zurich. He has said he is part Jewish. Was very in love from the beginning, which I thought was abit odd. Thankfully my intuition kicked in and I became aware of him, finally he asked for money as he needed to fix pipes, even though he is a well off oil contractor. Ive since tried to get him to own up that he is lying. However now I'm the bad person. Lolol. These guys doing this have mental health issues. Plus he only spoke on hangouts which I never needed. Now if blocked and removed my hangouts app.
May 21, 2020
I've been talking to this gentleman for 8mths goes by the name Patrick michael claims his wife passed of cancer and he has a 12 year old daughter named lisa one of his pics are on timey when I did a reverse pic lookup but his others aren't. Has anyone encountered him?
December 22, 2020

In reply to by Worried1

Same story.....He is a driller on a oil rig in Gulf of Mexico, has 12 year old daughter that is living with his sister in California, wife died 3 years ago of will not come up in tin eye..cant find anything on him. Goes b the name of Evan Reagan
Kelli L.
May 21, 2020
I've meet Robert Arno Powell from Massachusetts. Works as a scientist, divorced with twins. Photos on Instagram include his kids and coworkers, and his workace. He took a contract in Turkey for 3 months. Then it was extended. Buys oil barrels, and is from South Africa originally. He asked for help with a barrel deal early on. Afterwards, he has asked for cards because he left his credit back in the US. I was aware he was having difficulty w his phone prior to leaving for his trip. Replaced the phone 2x, last time prior to leaving on the trip. So he doesnt have his apps loaded. The url doesnt allow him upload them. He uses WhatsApp, hangsouts and instagram. Have video chatted, spoken on the phone, and the photos match. I am torn... it's been over 4 months... I've checked every possible angle but cant find anything about him on the internet. I'm waiting and seeing but there's always a little nagging thought he could be a scammer. Hoping not but going to place this online just in case. Thank you.
December 22, 2020

In reply to by Kelli L. say you video was the quality? You can video chat with that person in the picture (you think its the person in the picture) but they have software now that will use their voice on the video chat especially in Hangouts or Whatsapp pay attention if there is delay in the movement of the mouth and talking.....its not him.
May 25, 2020
Does anyone know anything about United Nations HON organization? There is a girl studying to be a RN in the United States from Dublin, Ireland. They want me to pay a safekeeping fee that will be refunded after 3 days if they know she is safe after posting her in my state??
May 26, 2020
Beware of Magnus Erickson. Supposedly has a 13 year old daughter in boarding school in Portugal. Her name one day is Daniella and the next day is Becky. She has a nanny when she's in Denmark and his mother lives in a large yellow house. Of course he sent me a picture of it. His wife died 5 years ago but he still can't talk about the loss. Poor guy. He's off shore in Louisiana and has a $750, 000 contract coming up. He'll ask for gift cards for his daughter's school work. Then he'll ask for your I'd with photo, name and address so he can have that $750,000 check and some gold coins delivered from Russia. It's a box with a code and once you receive the box, he'll send you the code. He's charming and polite and speaks Danish and english not so well. He did not get any money from me. Please be careful. He's a smooth one and he'll ask if you're Christian and use God as an attraction.
May 06, 2021

In reply to by Wontbescammed

I have a couple questions about this guy 1. How old is he? 2. What does he do for work if you know? 3. Do you know anything about his income?
May 28, 2020
Hello is someone chatting with a woman named Mary Johnson from Nigeria?
May 28, 2020
Clark David is his name. He said he gas 2 kids in boarding school. Wife died 5yrs ago. Working as engineer at a oil company..ask me to send him an Amazon gift card for his daughter birthday. Is any one familiar with him.
May 28, 2020
Mark Vincent James is his name. He said he is a surgeon working as a peace corp in Sudan. A son in boarding school back in Toronto. Asking to send him money for his exit visa from sudan..please advise
No fool
June 01, 2020
Gorgeous petroleum engineer. Wife died in childbirth. Nineteen year old son who lives with the engineer’s elderly mother. Both need medicine and account has been frozen while awaiting a large payment and friend spent all of his money. I have pictures I’d love to show to others and see if you’ve been contacted by him. Doesn’t matter what his name is because I’m sure it’s not real. Says he lives in Michigan.
June 16, 2020
Looking for anyone who has been talking to a Thomas Nappa. I have found 2 other women who have had conversations with him on Google Hangouts. He is very sweet and caring; says he loves you fairly quickly. He was on Plenty of Fish and now he may be back on the site with a different name and location. Watch out, eventually he asks for money. None of us sent him any but we want him stopped.
Been there 53
November 02, 2020

In reply to by CathyV

Omygoodness!! Also on POF, I had a guy super charming named Dave Coley says he is a contractor in Tel Aviv for a UN contract and texted him on hangout. Fast mover now loves me and wants marriage!! Asked me to send him a cell phone!!! Total scam To
June 17, 2020
Anyone talking to a guy named James Maxwell who lives in Miami but he’s originally from Sweden? His wife and younger daughter died in an accident but he has an 18-year-old daughter living in Sweden. He is on contract with Exxon Mobile off the Gulf of Alabama on an oil rig until early July. Texts perfect english but has a heavy accent.
Elder Caretaker
June 17, 2020
What happens to elders who fall prey to this (loosing all of their money) and who reside in assisted living in regards to the 5 years look back for medicaid eligibility?
Concerned in US
June 19, 2020
I have been involved on line with a person, who said originally that he lives in the Washington DC area, also in L A. He had to leave to work on an infrastructure contract deal in Scotland. Right away, he was very romantic, said all the right things. After about a week the requests started coming, for gift cards needed to supposedly update his iphone. $500.00 worth. I said no. He said that's ok. He will figure it out, but he didn't. Now the requests are coming fast & furious, always pleading for me to please help, especially if I truly loved him. Oh, he's good, says all the right things, sometimes I almost convince myself to do it , but then common sense sets in. I must remember the warning. never send money to someone you have never met. He has really touched me emotionally but I know the advice would be to stop this now. All the warning signs are there. I ask myself, could he really be an honest person, and not a scammer? Does anyone else feel this way?
September 24, 2020

In reply to by Concerned in US

What was this guy's name? Did you ever get photos of him? I am talking to a guy with a VERY similar back story, except he only asked for $100. Met on a dating app, Mingle something. I have reverse image searched all his photos and boom, he's like a ghost. No where found on social media.
Wyntah Sno
December 12, 2020

In reply to by Concerned in US

Yes, the same M.O his mine is David Yu Kim @ Davidyukim1 on Twitter. He asked for all that and alot more from me. He really was a good talker never spoke to him or vids. I do have pics. David, 51, from Brooklyn,Ny
D Bianco
June 19, 2020
I’ve been talking with this guy, Carlos Morgan, for about a month now who works on a deep sea oil rig outside Aberdeen, Scotland. He contacted me through a facebook post, and suggested we talk through the hangouts app. He is reluctant to talk about himself by said he was “abandoned by biology” is alone in the world and was looking for a special woman to settle down with and, maybe I was the one of his dreams and prayers. He was quick to say I love you and wanted me to do the same. Writes beautiful poetry and lately been calling me his Juliet. He is charming, Baptist “member” and delightful. Because I am skeptical I kept waiting to hear something “out of the ordinary” and did not until today, a whole month later. He said something that I didn’t understand and then responded with I could write to his company and they would allow him vacation to come “home to me” and you guessed it, I would have to take care of the cost. When I responded I can’t afford that, he said “am I not worth it?” Have you ever looked up what they make working on a oil rig? I did because I was interested in knowing more about a rig and the salary was right there too. Why would he need my money to get to me? It would seem that he makes plenty. If he thinks he can con me into sending him money he’s sadly mistaken. I may enjoy the compliments and the poetry but get serious. I wasn’t born yesterday. Just be careful when getting into anything online. I really enjoyed him but if he seems too good to be true he probably is.
March 12, 2021

In reply to by D Bianco

Sounds like same man I was talking to, George Woodman from Atlanta Ga. Working on oil rig in the Atlantic for British petroleum, loved me in 2 weeks, has 2 girls in boarding school, wife died 3 yrs ago car accident, no family, he wanted 3,500 to cm see me and wanted me to write his company.. pics were a beautiful man w beard, short gray hair, lavish pics in some apt.. I feel sooooo stupid... what a smooth talker. Very vulnerable
July 20, 2021

In reply to by Scammer

Same guy but asked for 3,500 My mom sent 900 Is about 55-60 Salt and pepper beard but mostly white Lavish clothing and apartment
July 08, 2020
Hello All, I have a feeling my sister getting scammed she had a guy message her on Instagram then ask her to hangouts they been chatting for like 5 months. She says he is from La is a private electrical contractor went to Turkey just before Covid hit got stuck there with no flights leaving and even sent her the supposive contract without her asking. Then when coming back in finally for flights he asked her to search for he had shown to have a fever at airport then stayed there in London area for 5 weeks for Covid treatment and rehab. Then when they were to meet the second time he had his mom pass away from heart issues in Portugal and had to go there because his 3 yr. old grandson there with the nanny who contacted him about his mother’s death. Also the grandson’s mother died a couple years ago. The guy says he from Portugal is an only child. I told my sister I really think you being scammed try to video with him on hangouts she says I have not had time I’m not worried since he sent me the contract he just had bad luck but he is legit. Tells her he wants to buy her a car and take care of her and her kids. I asked her has he asked for money she says no. I really feel it’s a scam and she is vulnerable because her and my brother in law had issues and are separated. As her sister I can see well from outside but she don’t want to believe it. The guy goes by name of Jerry Foster.
July 08, 2020
My friend was playing along with a woman that was on pof she wanted him to send information so she could get money from her dads inheritance she wanted him to take a pic of his driver's license and ssn and full name and email it to her she says she is talking to an attorney she is a big time scammer my friend told her to shove it her name she goes by is rose a standley and she says she lives in Colorado springs